"One observation I have found if I may point out ~ In the last year or so, I spoke with three or four girls (Indo-American, Tamil Brahmin) who married American (white) boys. When I asked them why they chose an American boy, uniformly (I was surprised) the answer was: "Indian boys do not want to marry dark skinned girls. They just want to talk and then don't respond. If I waited to marry an Indian boy, I may never be married!" I was sad to hear that. Any way, I wanted to get it off my chest", to which I responded:
thank you very much for sharing your experiences on what the Indian brides married to Caucasians gave you as their reasoning for getting married to them ~ to "just get them off of your chest"! But then all the Indian bridegrooms are neither Shalmaan Khan's to seek the Aaishwarya Rai's either! !
Don't give up hope ~ you have a big responsibility towards your daughter in helping her find the right alliance! and celebrating her happy marriage. You are not alone with your frustrations as a bridal parent, as I hear the same story from several dozens, if not scores, every month. Hang in there and when the right time comes along, she will bring her "sweetheart" home! We will help you as much as we can through our Initiative!
Anyone registered with our Initiative and Subscribing can seek Parental contact information ~ if you are not Registered with us, you may do so NOW! there is a Registration Form included at the tail end of this Newsletter!
To bring you up to speed, we are proud to say that over the course of 2010 and through to-date, we have published and/or updated our Global Lists of Prospective brides and grooms seeking matrimony as follows ~ (any of you can request any of these Lists!) with your Registration!
Our Lists NOW span 97% of the Continental United States coast~to~coast ~ from Portland, Maine to Los Angeles and San Francisco Bay area on the West Coast and from Miami, Florida to Seattle, Washington. The ONLY states our radar screen has not picked up are North and South Dakotas, Wyoming, Alaska and Hawaii. Our coverage even extends to Canada, U.K., Europe, Far East (Singapore, Thailand, Australia and New Zealand) and Middle East, thanks to the excellent support and excellent coverage from my colleague, R. Sivasankaran (Siva) from our London Desk! So we are truly a GlobalMatri.org.
List #1 ~ United Kingdom ~ Updated List e-broadcast in January, 2011
List #2 ~ Europe, Far East (Malaysia, Singapore, Australia and NZ including Thailand) and Middle East ~ updated List e-broadcast on April 9, 2011
List #3 ~ Canada ~ Rev #1 was e-broadcast February 19, 2011
List #4 ~ California (Northern California comprising of San Francisco Bay Area) and (Southern California comprising of Los Angeles,Ontario, San Diego and Imperial countries), including the adjoining States of Arizona, Colorado, New Mexico and Nevada, Rev #2 e-broadcast March 5, 2011.
List #5 ~ Previously Married, Legally Separated brides and grooms, living all over the U.S., Canada, UK, Europe, Far East e-broadcast Feb 26, 2011
List #6 ~ Tri-State Area (comprising of New York-New Jersey and Connecticut) and Phillie area updated List e-broadcast March 26, 2011
List #7 ~ Brides residing in India seeking Matrimony to prospective grooms abroad! update e-broadcast February 12, 2011
List #8 ~ U.S. citizens, Permanent Residents living all over the U.S., e-broadcast in September, 2010, now being updated
List #9 ~ State of Texas
List #10~ Greater Boston, Massachusetts, Maine, New Hampshire, Rhode Island, and Vermont, e-broadcast May 14, 2011
List #11 ~ Virginia/Washington DC/Maryland~Delaware e-broadcast May 7, 2011
List #12 ~ Midwestern United States of the States of Illinois, Indiana, Michigan, Missouri Minneapolis and Wisconsin e-broadcast November 26, 2010
List #13 ~ Left Blank
List #14 ~ Ohio and Pennsylvania e-broadcast on December 2, 2010
List #15 ~ Northwestern States of the U.S. - Washington, Oregon and Idaho ~ to be e-broadcast January 22, 2011
List #16 ~ Prospective Brides and Grooms living in the U.S. who are Medical Doctors and/or in related Medical Fields ~ April 16, 2011 2011
List #17 ~ South Eastern United States ~ Georgia, Carolina's, Florida, Tennessee, Mississippi, Louisiana, and Alabama February 5, 2011
Our special email: "Pathu Vidha Pourtham in Jaadagam Paakudal and 13 Other Poruthams in this Modern Day and Age ~ ask us to send you a email on this! it received over 10,000 hits! In addition, we have e-broadcast over half-a-dozen Lists of Haves and Wants during the last quarter of 2010.
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All of our U.S. lists are segregated into two (2) categories ~ (A) citizens and green card holders (B) Non-citizens ~ on H1B, H1B~GC, J1, L1, G4 and F1 visas. Recognizing that most brides and grooms cannot quickly relocate in these hard economic times, because all of the brides and grooms have jobs, or/are stuck in different kinds of work visas, we have given attention to preparing Lists that are regionalized ~ so prospective brides and grooms can connect, if they are in the same region or territory. Or if your son/daughter can relocate to other regions per our List, you can pursue opportunities from those regions as well! Also respecting the wishes of American Citizen parents of brides and grooms, we have restricted requests from Non-Citizens seeking Parental Contact Information on Brides and Grooms who are U.S. Citizens and Green Card Holders.
